“When I tell people we rent our house, their eyes change. It is as if there is shame in being a tenant. People need to borrow heavily to lead a normal lifestyle. This is not what we want.”

“Deirdre Marconato regularly hears her neighbours and acquaintances say that Vancouver is “the best place on earth.”
“It’s a very pretentious phrase, but it is accepted as an immutable truth,” she said.
Ms. Marconato also thought that Vancouver was a great place when she arrived in 2008. She and her husband, who has an international career as a financial analyst, had decided to sell their flat in Hong Kong to move to the West Coast, where Ms. Marconato was born. They wanted to settle with their daughter in a friendly neighbourhood, close to good schools, ocean and mountains.
But when we spoke to her in her upscale West Vancouver neighbourhood in late June, Ms. Marconato was busy packing her last moving boxes. Her adventure was coming to an end after three years in Vancouver, with the family now returning to Hong Kong.
Upon arrival in Vancouver, the Marconato family soon saw that something was amiss. They were well-off, and used to the cost of living in Hong Kong, but they were shocked when they saw the local Vancouver house prices. They initially decided to rent.
However, being a tenant in Vancouver is to be part of a subclass, Ms. Marconato soon realized. “When I tell people we rent our house, their eyes change. It is as if there is shame in being a tenant,” she said.
Community life in West Vancouver is not what she imagined. “At least 60% of homes in my neighbourhood have been sold over the last two years. Many are empty. It’s a very cold atmosphere. We invite people over, but it is never reciprocate. I lived in London, Paris, Singapore and Toronto, and I have never experienced a situation like this.”
Furthermore, West Vancouver is not immune to crime: several gang shootings took place in the district in the last two years. A student of the high school attended by her daughter was stabbed outside the school.
A few months ago, a headhunter contacted Ms. Marconato’s husband to offer him a job in Hong Kong. The decision to leave was made quickly.
Ms. Marconato is disappointed that her “Canadian dream” has ended.
“I do not understand how people live in Vancouver,” she said. In Hong Kong, life is expensive, but wages are high. Here, jobs are not highly paid. People need to borrow heavily to lead a normal lifestyle. This is not what we want.”

– from ‘Fièvre immobilière: quitter Vancouver’, by Nicolas Bérubé, La Presse, 15 Oct 2011
[translation by Google; paraphrasing by your editor].

17 responses to ““When I tell people we rent our house, their eyes change. It is as if there is shame in being a tenant. People need to borrow heavily to lead a normal lifestyle. This is not what we want.”

  1. I am pretty sure this lady posted here before.. I don’t remember the handle, but the circumstances are identical. Sorry if I offend by essentially outing anonymity… others will no doubt notice the parallels as well.

    • TPFKAA ->
      That is correct, we should have mentioned.
      We think last time the story may have been told by her husband.
      This is not surprising, as Nicolas Berube polled readers on this blog for stories about people leaving Vancouver.

      There is a possibility that other anecdotes may represent double-ups.
      We usually flag them as such; for instance today’s ‘scullboy’ update.

  2. When I first moved to Vancouver I remember being shocked at how insular the neighbourhood was; it was odd, coming from an area of the country that had regular block parties and get-togethers between neighbours.

    I know some people will accredit this particular anecdote to rich immigrants who don’t care for community and all this, but I think what this person is experiencing is neither a unique nor a recent phenomenon. This is not to say that there aren’t neighbourly areas of Vancouver (there are) but they are significantly rarer than what I’ve seen in the rest of the country.

    And again, this is going back several decades at least. Plus ca change…

  3. We used to claim we are much more friendly and outgoing than East Coast, but honesty I think nowadays we can only claim we are snobbier than East Coast. A lot of people have told me that it’s harder to make friends or date in Vancouver than almost anywhere else in Canada. I’m starting to think it’s true.

    I lay the blame at the start of HK and Taiwan immigration waves in the 90s. A lot of rich people came over in a short period of time and they didn’t come here to be part of Canadian society like the older immigrants, coming here to search for a better live and slowly integrate into Canadian society. They came here to escape from what they perceive as trouble. Essentially Vancouver is viewed as the freek parking spot on the Monopoly game board. Also freeloading of our great social safety net while paying no tax is simply an added bonus.

    Canada seems to be attracting this type of immigrants more and more over the years.

    • trouble has always been a major immigration driver. migrants freeloading on cdn social services is a misconception, imo. for sure some of that happens in places like california. research and verify the demographic of local safety net users. i’d expect migrants, especially asian ones, to be the exception. as far as social services go, public schools perhaps but how much to buy into the neighborhood and pay the ppty taxes? what about sales taxes? 10%-15% is pretty obscene on top of everything else. your migrants are not impoverished refugees. if you did, local labor costs would be much cheaper. btw, at my 1st employer, i worked alongside vietnamese refugee migrants in the late 70s and these people were among the best i ever met.

    • not all asian foreigners are unfriendly. Mostly Chinese, which happen to be the major immigrant population in Vancouver. Check the houses on your block that didn’t participate in Halloween and turned their lights out – likely all Chinese. They have no intention of participating in Canadian language, culture, heritage – but seek to start their own.
      If we choose only the wealthy and elite to migrate here why do we expect them to act like valuable and participating members of our society?

    • “it’s harder to make friends or date in Vancouver than almost anywhere else in Vancouver.”

      Is that a slip? It’s not the only place in the world you know 😉

  4. West Vancouverites looking down their noses at people? NO! say it isn’t so.

  5. again, if you a renter you are viewed as transient. Why should owners with roots make a substantial emotional commitment to you if you plan to scurry out of town when adversity emerges?
    This woman became just what owners assessed her as, transient.

    • In other words, you judge people for what they own and not who they are. Thank you for confirming in your own words that you are a giant douche.

    • What a strange comment. Is reciprocating a dinner invitation a “substantial emotional commitment”?

      Sounds to me like you have the cart before the horse. This woman’s family really wanted to live in Vancouver, but found the salaries were too low to justify the high cost of housing and the lack of community. They didn’t leave because of “adversity”, they left because they concluded that Vancouver really wasn’t a nice place to live.

  6. People are overly indebted there is not a lot of wiggle room. They take out a mortgage to the hilt while trying to maintain an appearance of wealth in this city. When so much value is put on materialism, the humanity is lost. People just don’t have extra money to go out anymore and do social activities because they can’t afford it. The sacrifice is quality of life for a house/image/reputation.

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