“I grew up in a multi-ethnic, working/middle class part of Vancouver.”… Real Jobs; Common Understanding… Cold City Now… “Even if prices come down, we will be surrounded by miserable, indebted fools.”

Mike at VREAA 27 Feb 2011 3:37pm -
“I grew up in a multi-ethnic, working/middle class part of Vancouver. Most people were immigrants but they mixed. Children were fluently English and parents were doing their best to learn. There was some sort of common understanding that is missing today. Racism was discouraged because people were just trying to get along, not because it was politically incorrect. Now there are cultural barriers everywhere I look.
People had real jobs back then, too. There was industry in this city even if it wasn’t globally important. Now if an industry tried to open, the condo owners would chase it away.
Children played on the block and parents knew each other to some extent. Now they ride in the SUV to school and back.
This is a cold city now. Even if prices come down, we will be surrounded by miserable, indebted fools. Unless you can somehow isolate yourself from the misery, you will feel it. And you don’t really want to isolate yourself. Time to leave…”

5 Responses to “I grew up in a multi-ethnic, working/middle class part of Vancouver.”… Real Jobs; Common Understanding… Cold City Now… “Even if prices come down, we will be surrounded by miserable, indebted fools.”

  1. I love Dear John letters. There’s nothing more passive aggressive than screaming anonymously, ‘Hey, you suck, I’m going to leave!’. It has a much larger and positive impact than just leaving, devoting your time to building a new future and not looking back.

    • anonymous -> Yes, there is a aggressive quality, explicit or implied, to many of the ‘letters’ like this, some of which we have headlined (see the ‘Avoiding Vancouver’ category in the sidebar).
      And, yes, it is fair advice for individuals who decide to leave to put the past behind them and get on with their futures.
      So, your comment is fair.

      At the same time, it is fair that people who are leaving Vancouver for specific reasons share those reasons with the general population. We may be able to learn something about our city from these ‘letters’.
      We think it’d be a mistake if every one of the fairly large numbers of people who we’ve heard from who have ‘moved on’ were simply disregarded as discontents.

      Many people are justifiably angry about what monetary policy, loose lending, and herd behaviour have done to local housing prices. It’s not surprising, nor is it unjustifiable, that they express that anger in a civil fashion.

      [BTW, your comment's sarcasm has more than a touch of passive-aggression to it, too. Gotta love the layers of irony.]

      • “There’s nothing more passive aggressive than screaming anonymously” – Anonymous
        ;)

  2. Not Looking Back

    Actually, you can assess the situation you left behind while building a new life in a new city (that multitasking thing, I guess). We have now discovered what it feels like to have two professional incomes in a city where houses cost much less than half what they cost in Vancouver. You travel, you eat out, you play golf/ski/sail, your kids can go to private school, you have the life you thought you would have when you got that extra degree. Contrast life in Vancouver where two professional incomes and a tenant in the basement allows you to be a homeowner of nothing special, with no money left over. Leaving was quite simply the best thing we have ever done.

  3. It is just the way it goes

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