“The pressure to buy was absolutely immense. He caved and paid current prices because the alternative of constant harassment would have driven him insane.”

jesse1 on RETalks 6 Aug 2010 8:41pm“A member of my extended family bought recently because he and his wife are expecting their first child. The pressure to buy, for various reasons, was absolutely immense. I looked in awe at the way he was treated by his immediate family. He caved and paid current prices because the alternative of constant harassing would have driven him insane.”

6 Responses to “The pressure to buy was absolutely immense. He caved and paid current prices because the alternative of constant harassment would have driven him insane.”

  1. And if it crashes now he’ll be remembered as the gutless sucker idiot.

  2. Families should let peoole make up their own minds about such things. Who wants the guilt of knowing that you badgered your adult children into poverty.

    There are a couple of friends of mine that I would like to badger into selling because they are way over extended and will be in hot water if prices drop. I keep my gob shut however because if I’m wrong I don’t want to spend the rest of my life listening to “you told us to sell and now we’re priced out forever!”

  3. It’s funny, but it is completely the opposite story in my family. My cousin just bought…everyone in the family warned her not to…I don’t think they will have any trouble making their payment even when rates return to normal because they didn’t borrow too much and they did put down 25%. I do think they are going to lose their 25% though. But hey, they are happy…they have a place that they will own eventually.

  4. This comment stemmed from a conversation on RET and I realised, after hearing some other perspectives, it’s not always so easy to “avoid” paying high prices.

    We can pass judgment on people with young families who buy but often it’s not just about “you” when kids are involved. The extended family can cause life to be uncomfortable for many. I think some of us come from backgrounds where individuality has precedence but this is not the case with others, or at least the social pressure deems that non-conformance can have severe consequences.

    I guess all’s I’m stating is it’s not necessarily the person who buys who is to blame. They may have traded off more risks that isn’t obvious on the surface.

    We’re all speculators now.

  5. Couple in their fifties have two condos, one in spectrum the other just completed in building beside art gallery. Looking to retire to HK soon so both places put up for sale to fund buying property there. Mortgage on one place, the other paid off. New place 600 sqft listed at $420k or something. Rejected offer in May and now no bites. They will lose money if they drop the price more and this is assuming they can get full G/HST credit for it (which is no guarantee).

    Now they are worried that they will have to keep working if they can’t sell at least one of the places. Why? They already bought a place in HK with mortgage assuming they could sell at least one of the places in Vancouver. If they sell one they can at least get out with break even cash flow if they rent the remaining unit to fund mortgage in HK.

    Bottom line: their retirement depends on prices staying flat. Any fall will force their early retirement plans to the sidelines. This couple wasnuying and selling real estate all the way up the past 10 years, making 100s of k net fees. They know little else in terms of investing other than ING which is pretty much not more than a holding pen for a future property purchase.

    I didn’t think people like this existed, putting so much into one asset class and hoping for Freedom 55. But now I met them I know how bad this is going to get.

    We’re all speculators now.

  6. Pingback: Spot the Speculator #11 – “They are worried that they will have to keep working. They already bought a place in HK with mortgage assuming they could sell at least one of the places in Vancouver.” | Vancouver Real Estate Anecdote Archive

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